Recycled Love

Love in Marriage: 365 Reasons I Love My Husband

Judith Heaney
4 min readNov 17, 2021

Do you have chores neither you nor your spouse prefer and therefore sometimes tend to ignore? Until you can’t. We have a few of them: cleaning out the fridge (though that tends to happen weekly because of trash day), scooping out the cat’s litter box, folding the clean laundry, and cleaning the toilet bowls, just to name a few. But I think the one we both put off for as long as possible is rinsing out certain recyclable containers. Specifically, Hershey syrup bottles and Nutella snack pack containers.

Cleaning out the Nutella packs = yuck! That hazelnut spread sticks like some super paste to the sides of each container.

Hazelnut Spread — good, but oh, so sticky! (photo: Silvia)

But one of has to do it, especially once they’ve multiplied on the countertop by the sink like a family of rabbits. And there is one major difference between David and I when it comes to clutter like this and that is he doesn’t tend to notice it until it gets in his way of doing something. Me, on the other hand, am hyper aware of pretty much any clutter. Our brains just work differently, and that is an area we’ve had to work on accepting and understanding in and with each other. It hasn’t always been easy because I think as human beings even though we embrace our individuality, we sometimes expect other people in our lives, especially a spouse, to do things the way we do, to…

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